Tuesday, March 24, 2009

The pain of losing our beloved

Death. A very big word. It can take away one's life like wind blowing away a piece of paper and can also affect the dead person's beloved ones greatly.

The pain and agony of losing our beloved is indeed tremendous, but when is it the greatest? Is it the moment when you received the news, at the funeral, or after everything has happened?

Personally, I feel that the real blow of losing our beloved ones comes greatest after the incident has happened. Imagine waking up one day, knocking on your brother's door as usual, waiting for him to go jogging with you, only to realise that he is gone forever? Imagine getting poor results and crying in your room, waiting for your mother to comfort you, only to realise that she is not in this world anymore?

The emptiness and bitterness in our heart can never be cured. It stays like a scar, like a hole in our heart, haunting us whenever we think of them. That, truly, is the most painful part.

Indeed, we should treasure our loved ones lest it is too late. Imagine quarrelling with your friend today and realise that he is gone the next day before you could reconcile with him?

We should not take our loved ones for granted, for you would definitely regret when something bad happens. So as i said, treasure them by spending more quality time with them, or anything else that can make you feel happy.

Treasure them before it is too late...

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